Do you hold grudges or do you believe in forgive and forget?
Grudges take a lot of energy and compel us to live in the past. If I find I cannot forgive a person (I do not believe in “forget”) I just eliminate them from my life. It takes a lot for that to happen because I’m a combination of tolerant and indifferent, but if it does happen? That person will cease to exist in my personal universe. Not that they’ll mind. They will probably not even notice.
For example, I’m not holding a grudge against WordPress for this REALLY abysmal new editor. I just use it if I feel like it and switch to the precambrian version when I want to CONTROL what happens on my post visually. I’m not carrying an axe because the prompts (such as this one) are often so, I dunno, PERSONAL. What do I care? I don’t have to write this if I don’t want to. Sure, sure, time was I objected and tried to change the status quo but WordPress is an immense and powerful machine. It’s the same as trying to convince feminists that the pronoun “he” is completely unimportant. What’s important is equal pay for equal work.
Heh heh heh.