Arrested Development?

“You’re Peter Pan. You have all these kids following you around. You know why? You never grow up.” A long ago colleague’s take on me.
I walk away from my office chagrined and confused. Thank goodness my friends are waiting in the back of the truck. “We going to Mission, Martha?”
“I have to just drop you off and go home and get the dogs unless you want to go home with me and get the dogs then go.”
“We’ll go home with you.”
“Yeah, I’ll go see my mom for a minute.”
“Cool. Let’s rock’n’roll.”
“I got this, well my uncle Jim made it, you’re going to like it.” Tape in tape deck. Air instruments deployed.

“You know what, Martha?”
“No tell me.”
“What’s weird is you’re just like us. I mean except you’re a lady and stuff and you’re smart, and you teach college and shit, but otherwise, you’re just like us.”
“What do you mean?”
“You just want to do this, don’t you? You just want to ride your bike and hike with your dogs and hang out with us.”
“That’s true, Craig.”

“Martha! Martha! Martha! Martha!”
“Hi Andy.”
“My horse pooped.”
“Yeah, they’re good at that. I gotta’ go grade papers. See you later alligator.”
“See you later blablerbater.”
He’s close to getting it.

And so I sit here, a retiree, a senior citizen, writing this prompt, thinking about the question, looking something like my maternal grandmother, wearing my favorite Clash t-shirt and wondering what I thought it would be to be an adult. All I ever thought it would be was inevitable. My childhood was serious. My teen years even more so. I learned during those times that without a spirit of play, a person is lost. I think what many think of as being an adult is someone without that spirit, without the ability to “Jump Death.”

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5 thoughts on “Arrested Development?

  1. Agreed. Without a spirit of play, we are lost. I love that thought. I think – I hope – we rediscover that spirit again and again in life. I lose it for a while and then remember – oh yes, life is suppose to be fun.

    Glad we visited again today. And yay the Clash. My favourite thought about them in adulthood? The writers from 2000’s Bring it On having Kirsten Dunst’s love interest in a Clash shirt to show he was “counter culture” and then including a line where she asks, in reference to the shirt “Is that you’re band?” because that actually happened on set given she – at 17 – had never heard of them. All I can say is that I’m happy knowing that starring in a cheerleading movie educated her about the Clash.

    • That’s good. They Clash — Great. I’m now wearing my Dead Kennedy’s shirt. Had a lot of cleaning painting and stuff to do today, so… I’m starting to look at retirement as the time of life when I don’t have to wear anything but punk rock t-shirts and shorts or punk rock t-shirts and jeans.

      • One more reason I can look forward to retirement! I think THAT’s what I want to be when I grow up. Retired. My parents do it fabulously. It sounds like you do as well.

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